Dealing with Difficult People
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I. Build Relationships Continually
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If working With a de-motivated employee over a period Of time or a tricky customer effective relationships are vital.
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2. Show You are Interested
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by showing you are interested in a difficult person you are much more likely to have a constructive and positive outcome.
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3. Tolerate Little
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It just is not worth being too accepting of poor behaviors in employees over time it will drag your own performance down.
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4. Seek Information Through Questions
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Ask for information, to show that you have been listening to what they say and to maintain the conversation, thus building rapport.
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5.Then...Listen Well
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Always the best solution. By listening you create a great relationship and get the facts you need to resolve the issues that difficult people bring.
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6. Remove Bullying Behaviors
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whether by tackling them and changing people, or by literally disciplining them out of the person. Definitely toxic.
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7. Show Self-Control
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You need to be restrained, in control and calm enough to carefully respond and not react. The way you behave Will impact on the response you get.
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8. Follow Through With promises
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you Will only ever maximize a relationship if you can be trusted to do What you say you Will — and maybe even more, by over-delivering and delighting.